Learning about the life of Zina D.H.
Young is like reading the female perspective of early church history.
Zina was in the thick of it all - the church's origins, its major
settlements and exoduses, new forms of marriage and spiritual
expression, new roles for women in public and private spheres, and
the spread of the Relief Society. Zina was deeply committed to her
faith. She made terrible and soul-wrenching sacrifices for her faith,
and she received deep spiritual gifts and satisfaction as a result of
her actions.
Zina Diantha joined the church at age
14 in upstate New York in 1835. Many members of her family had joined
several months earlier, and on the morning her brother was going to
be baptized, she had a vision of a man baptizing someone, which she
took as a sign to join her brother in baptism.
Spiritual blessings came quickly. Soon
after her baptism, the gift of tongues came upon her suddenly and
powerfully. Zina was alarmed by the strangeness of the sensation, so
she didn't speak. She felt terrible about her choice, and felt she
had offended the spirit by denying a gift. After earnest prayer, she
resolved to never silence it again, no matter the circumstances. She
kept this vow throughout her life, and it gave comfort, guidance, and
healing to countless individuals she encountered.
Zina grew from child to woman in all of
the major settlements of the early church. When the Saints gathered
to Kirtland, her family sold their property at a loss and joined the
Saints in Kirtland. After they lost everything when the Kirtland Bank
fell, and persecution became great, they moved to Far West. When they
were forced from Far West, 18 year old Zina moved to Nauvoo.
While in Nauvoo, Joseph Smith
introduced two doctrines to Zina. The first was the concept of a
Heavenly Mother. When Zina grieved the death of her mother and came
to Joseph for comfort, she asked him if she'd know her mother in the
hereafter. Joseph told her she would, and that she would also know
her Heavenly Mother, a concept that had not been taught widely at
that point.
The second, more controversial doctrine
he taught Zina was that of plural marriage, when he invited her to
become his plural wife. She avoided answering him on several
occasions, and chose to receive the proposal of Henry Jacobs instead,
a well-respected missionary for the church. They wed in 1841, and
when she asked Smith why he sent someone else to perform the sealing,
he replied that God had made it known that Zina was to be his
celestial wife, and he couldn't give another man a woman God had
given him. In future conversations, he told her that her being
married to Jacobs didn't prevent her from being sealed to him.
As far as the records show, Zina and
Henry had a good marriage. Henry loved her, and they were faithful
and committed to the church. But as time passed, Zina felt extreme
guilt over rejecting Joseph's proposal, feeling she had not done
God's will. After prayer and counseling with her brother (a confidant
of Smith's), with Henry's consent and pregnant with his child, she
was also sealed to Joseph. She continued to live with Henry, and his
love and commitment continued. Zina formed strong bonds with other
secret plural wives of Joseph, and they shared a closeness throughout
the exodus west.
There isn't a historical record out
there that tells the whole story, but we do know that some time after
the death of Joseph Smith, Zina was sealed to Brigham Young for time,
Henry being present. The rules surrounding polygamy were shifting,
and while the records are muddy, it seems that Brigham considered
that Zina's marriage to Henry was canceled, while Henry didn't
completely understand what the sealing would mean. He continued
living with her during the trek from Nauvoo to Mt. Pisgah, but then
left on a mission shortly after, and never lived with her again. Some
accounts from disaffected Mormons state that Brigham brutally and
publicly sent Henry packing, but there some big problems with
corroboration and timeline in these accounts (although the gist of
the story, that Brigham ended their marriage, is the most logical
reading). The full story is simply not recorded. But what we do know
is that Henry would try to maintain contact with her through various
points in his life, with her sending only one letter in reply to him.
He loved Zina and missed her terribly.
Zina would go on to be a major figure
in the church. She would live in the Lion House and become part of
the communal life there, having one child with Brigham Young (she'd
had two previously with Henry). Although she wasn't a bold and
forceful woman, she was capable and trusted. She was a skilled and
sought-after midwife, anointing women with oil and giving them a
blessing before delivery, and skillfully resolving difficult
problems. She was heavily involved in the sericulture movement. She
hated those silk worms and would have nightmares over them, but she
diligently worked, serving as the first president of the Utah Silk
Association. She would oversee the industry, teaching other women how
to care for the silkworms, and handling marketing and publicity. She
also served as a matron to female temple workers. She served as the
Relief Society general president for roughly 13 years. While
president, the Relief Society affiliated with the US National Council
of Women, and she fought for the things she thought a woman of God
deserved: suffrage, as well as the right to be in a polygamous union
without persecution. She also worked heavily on grain storage and
midwife education. She spoke in tongues frequently throughout her
service, giving comfort to many.
Zina made big sacrifices for her faith.
Truth be told, I feel rather sick and angry when I read the
heartbreaking letters Henry sent her. I can't say she made the right choice, or that it was a choice she should have ever been asked to make. That said, I have admiration
for her ability to make such a difficult decision, and live the life
she decided on with determination, meaning, and goodness.
Sources:
4 Zinas: A Story of Mothers and
Daughters on the Mormon Frontier, by Martha Sonntag Bradley.